Local moms press to bring awareness, acceptance to breastfeeding
For the moms who came down to Shore Road Park to participate in “Public Display of Breastfeeding Day,” the calculation was a simple one – since their babies were born, between two and eight months ago, they had simply spent too much time sequestered in bathrooms and other out-of-the-way locations doing something that they believe they should be able to do comfortably, if discreetly, in public: feed their babies.
So, on the sunny morning of Thursday, August 15, there they were, on blankets on the grass adjacent to the playground at 79th Street, feeding their babies the way nature intended, some with cover-ups draped across them, others discreetly slipping their blouses aside so their infants could feed while they laughed and chatted and shared snacks among themselves.
“Breasts are so sexualized in our culture then suddenly you become a mom and they become functional,” noted Heather Tomoyasu, the founder of Bay Ridge Baby Mamas, who recalled, when her son was first born, feeling awkward about nursing. “You don’t want people to judge you. Then there’s modesty. You’re so paranoid someone is going to see something.”